I just came back from the school’s Art Show. As an Assistant Principal it was my job to hand out awards to the Year 7 and 8s and shake their hands, for which I earned a rather nice bottle of red wine. The perks of the job! There were some great art works on display and it’s nice to see the community come together.
Yesterday I collected Doris’s ashes from the vet. I was very sad driving her home for the last time – she used to be so vocal in the car, as it wasn’t one of her favourite things. The ashes are in a nice little wooden box. This afternoon I was discussing with Mark whether we should scatter or keep the ashes. I was holding the box in both hands and coming down the four steps from our lounge room to the kitchen when I stumbled and fell – I landed bang on both knees, and then elbows, still holding Doris is my two hands – I wasn’t going to drop her and have a “Meet the Parents” moment with ashes flying everywhere. Mark witnessed the whole thing.
I think she must have wandered under my feet as came down the stairs…
I don’t think she wants to be scattered.















I told you so!!!!
She wants to come with you to England and be buried in your new garden under a rose bush.
By: Frogdancer on November 6, 2009
at 6:54 am
Doris may have been a homebody but I reckon Frogdancer is right, she wants to stay with you.
By: Jayne on November 6, 2009
at 10:36 am
yep – she’s a stayer
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at 6:33 pm
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By: Jayne on November 7, 2009
at 7:45 am
I think she want to come to England too.
When my belove siamese cat Henry died in 2004 I too collected his ashes from the vet in a small casket. I couldn’t bring myself to bury the casket or scatter the ashes ~ and to this day Henry remains in his casket near my desk in the study. I find his presence very comforting. Henry was a huge part of my life for almost 20 years and I guess I just can’t let him go. His ashes will eventually be scattered with mine (after I’m dead of course!).
(((((((hugs))))))))
By: Author on November 9, 2009
at 11:55 pm